How do you convince your girlfriend in becoming a nudist?

[nudiertje]

well I want to convince my girlfriend to go to a nudist beach with me, what should I do?
How should I ask?

[sara]

How abouts \"How would you like to come with me to a nudist beach ?\"   

Do you see any particular problems with this approach ?

Sara

[nudiertje]

wll, I don\'t really know how she would react.

[Myllanac]

The key is patience. Be kind and understanding, truly listen to her concerns and do your best to address them. Go at her pace. Give her the \"panic button\", meaning when she wants out you both get out.

Ultimately it\'s her decision, and no matter what she chooses to do you need to respect that.

[dakref]

I would think there is the issue of being comfotable being nude together in the first place.  If you two (she) is comfotable being nude around home first, maybe the transition to a more public setting would be easier.

[turtle75]

sara said it best,,,,be direct but if she says no respect that

[mcw]

i\'m thinking she would laugh at 1st  not saying that is a bad thing just laugh with her you keep joking about it she might be keen on the idea

[tcsrg384]

maybe if you just make it sound like a kind of spur of the moment wild idea... i mean... she might be in the mood for a little spontinaity, you never know.

[Aymz]

my first visit to a nude beach was with my boyfriend.  what i said was something like: \"i\'ve been thinking of visiting a nude beach when we next have some nice weather and i\'d very much like you to come too.\"  i explained as well that he didn\'t have to go nude if her didn\'t want to (although it turned out i didn\'t have to worry about that).

i think with someone you are in a relationship with, the direct approach works best, especially if you let them know that it\'s their company, rather than their nudity, that you want.  if they want to go nude they\'ll do so without you needing to persuade them.

[Anonymous]

i dont think you can talk people into going nude. i try  

[Anonymous]

i dont think you can talk people into going nude. i try 

i totally agree with you... my best mate is very self-conscious and she refuses to go naked anywhere... iv told her about my love for naturism and shes very supportive but she just cannot go naked... i know this doesnt exactly answer the question posed and im not trying to take over this topic but it just points out that you have to respect somones decision and if your boyfriend/girlfriend says no then no it is...

[Wolf]

Yea, the most you can do is give them the chance to be nude. Tell them its ok, its not a sin, there’s nothing to be shameful of or whatever, But only they can decide if they want to be. I would venture to guess that they/she would proly be more comfortable, trying it when she’s alone before being in front of others.

[Pyre]

I don\'t think that there is a way of \'convincing\' people to become nudists. I think you have to give them the option to experience it and then let them make up their own mind if they feel comfortable with it. If they do then great but if not that\'s up to them and I would respect that decision too.

[nakednudists]

nudiertje-My fiancee wasn\'t a nudist when I met her.  I jokingly asked her if she wanted to go to a nudist resort one day and she replied with \"HELL NO!  I don\'t want everyone seeing me naked!\"  Now, she can\'t keep her clothes on.  Curiousity got the best of her and she had to go try it for herself.  
You can always tell when someone might be interested because they will keep asking questions and will always want to talk about it.
That will be a true sign if you have a  \"nudist\" in the making on your hands.
But whatever you do-don\'t be scared to ask her.  If your in a relationship with her, then you should be able to ask her or talk to her about it without her judging you too much.
Let us know how it turns out.

[Dario Western]

I don\'t currently have a girlfriend, although I will say this: I met a young lady at a nudist rock music festival in Brisbane last year and we were both nude when we first met.  She invited me to join her dancing class, which I have been going to once a week.

She hasn\'t got a boyfriend, although she is very popular with the guys at the class because she is an awesome dancer.  I have a lot of difficulty in being able to dance free-form after learning the moves and often come across as clumsy.  

I like this girl, although I feel shy about asking her out on a date.  I\'ve invited her to numerous naturist events since the rock festival, but she\'s only been to one since then because she works as a nurse on most weekends.  

It goes to show that a relationship you develop with a girl you meet in a nudist environment doesn\'t always develop into something deeper.  A shame, because I\'m quite fond of her and how unself-conscious she is about her body and the way she dances.  ^-^
I just don\'t let it onto her.