Trouble With Neighbors...

[rebell84]

Hey Krissy, thx for the Update!

Don´t get me wrong, it´s sad but true that i belong to "group 1)" 

I really like to read all that stuff and was flashed by your moms thoughts...a freeing childhood must be a great experience and i´m a littel jealous now... of course  my childhood was sheltered and nice too. I still live with my parents in our smal village where you now every neighbour and it has it´s pros and cons. As a child you are able to play in a beautifull nature and a known neighborhood, without any fear of drugs or crime... and if you mess things up, the folks first call your dad and not the police and then tell it the whole village...
....so ther´s no anonymity and always chit-chat and gossip

I always have to watch my steps, course i don´t want my mom to be told in the supermarket:
"Your boy runs thru the fields..NAKED " and thats one of the biggest facts why i´m so jealous right now
Please keep your good storries cumming, they give me a view on another lifestyle and i really like to be addicted to your life  

Now i hope everybody nearly understands, what i´ve tried to tell...sorry for the english, @aaron if i wrote in Hebrew it would be a disaster 
 

[Krissy16]

Thank you all for your comments....    Maybe it sounds weird, but it actually is just a bit embarassing, but it's ok, so don't stop, ok?  

Holger - I understand you just fine.  Please don't try Hebrew on me (you either Aaron!) because I'll be totally lost!!   Don't worry about being in group 1.  I think I do actually understand, and I think you'll probably have to stay in group 1, at least for now, sorry.  See, my grandparent's ranch is in an area that is only sparsely populated, and the nearest town (and that's kind of a laugh nowadays) is about 15 miles away.  But, eventhough everyone is spread out, I think probably everyone knows about my grandparents, because, as you know, it's just that way in a small town.   What makes it different for my grandparents is that they've been like this since they were married (nudists, that is), and that's been so long ago now that it's not exactly in the headlines anymore, but it certainly was for a while - long story.  So it's pretty much a non-issue now.  But, I know... small town means that people talk and sometimes I know you can find out that you've even done things that you've never actually gotten to do, and then people think you're lying that you actually didn't do whatever... I guess people just need something to talk about!

Well, I spent the afternoon and evening with Bret and his parents.  His brother had a date, so it was just the four of us.  I'm sorry to have to say that the rest of this story is now for the non-nudist... Bret's parents are not nudists and have no idea about my family, and Bret wants to keep it that way for now.  He wants them to get to know me and like me before he tells them, which is fine with me.  Bret's still just getting used to it to, to be honest.  Remember that I've been naked in this house, so it's actually just a bit ironic!   But anyway, we spent the afternoon just talking and getting to know each other better.  Then Bret's mom cooked dinner and I helped, although she said I didn't have to, but I can't imagine being that rude, so I did and I think she appreciated it.  After dinner we sat in the living room and talked some more and then Bret and I left and he brought me back home and that was that.  I guess the hard part for me tonight was that I'm actually very quiet and don't talk all that much, so I was kind of out of my element.  I know that probably sounds weird to all of you because I'm just fine writing here, but if you were to meet me in person, you'd understand right off.  So, I kept apologizing that I wasn't talking when the conversation waned.  Bret's mom says to me that it's ok and to just relax and be myself because they just want to get to know me.    I was thinking it, and Bret said it on the way home... He thanked me for not "just relaxing and being myself", because they have no idea what that means!   Bret's parents are very conservative and even Bret isn't 100% sure how they'll take finding out that "I like to run around naked".  I guess I'm not worried though as I don't think it's something that makes a big difference to me, especially not right now.  Bret knows and is okay with it and he's told me that he really doesn't care what his parents think.  They do want to meet my parents though, so that could be interesting... Well, ok, not that interesting.  My parents will gladly stay dressed because Bret will want them to, and they'll respect his wishes.  Same thing again... They don't want to force anything on anyone, but most especially, they won't want to mess anything up for me, and I'm glad of that.  So, guess we'll just have to see how it goes...

Anyway, probably enough for now... Not all that exciting, huh?   And, I'm beat... More to come....

Krissy

[Lochsmith]

Hey Krissy,

i Read the whole thing this time.  The longer you wait to tell his parents, the more complicated it could be for everyone.  My parents do not know and i'm keeping it that way.  They just don't need to know.  What would be ideal is that they try it, like it and all is well.  Whatever happens, I hope it all turns out good.

I'm also interested.... does he like bacon?  I told my boss today to pay me in bacon.  Good stuff. 

[Krissy16]

Ok, now I'm hurt.  Bret told me today that his parents asked him if I was Bulimic.  I have been told I'm a beanpole, but never Bulimic.... :(  For those of you who don't know, I'm 5'4" and about 105 lbs.  It's like this... I'm not fat, but I'm not boney or anything either... Apparently they asked Bret about it after I met them the first time.  The truth is that I eat a lot, I just have a high metabolism.  I come by it honestly.  My mom, my grandma and even Allie are all just the same.  I'm just hurt and had to vent... sorry.... :(  I just can't believe they'd think something like that.

Lochsmith - Glad to hear you read the whole thing this time!   I'm not sure if Bret likes bacon or not... He did eat bacon here on New Years day... Just hadn't really thought to ask him... What's the deal with bacon?  Am I missing something?

Krissy

[rumdiary]

Ok, now I'm hurt.  Bret told me today that his parents asked him if I was Bulimic.  I have been told I'm a beanpole, but never Bulimic.... :(  For those of you who don't know, I'm 5'4" and about 105 lbs.  It's like this... I'm not fat, but I'm not boney or anything either... Apparently they asked Bret about it after I met them the first time.  The truth is that I eat a lot, I just have a high metabolism.  I come by it honestly.  My mom, my grandma and even Allie are all just the same.  I'm just hurt and had to vent... sorry.... :(  I just can't believe they'd think something like that.

That's pretty stupid of them, in my opinion.

My girlfriend (now fiancée!) is the same as you and has the metabolism of a bumblebee!  Half her diet could consist of chocolate and she'd be fine!  My parents occasionally used to privately ask me if she was eating enough and all that nonsense, early on in our relationship, but now 5 years down the line I don't think I've heard anything like that for a long time out of them because they know she's just naturally a slim wee lass.

Having said that, asking if you're bulimic (sp?) is quite extreme.  Us boys can be stupid sometimes though and maybe Bret might have thought that telling you was some kind of backwards compliment or something, I know I've said some really stupid stuff in the past that was similar, lol.

[Krissy16]

Rumdiary - I'm glad to hear there's someone else out there like me!

Actually, Bret told me because it's been bothering him for the past couple of weeks from when I first met his parents.  We've both agreed that we need to be fully honest with each other and tell each other everything, how we're feeling, etc., and he hadn't told me that because he didn't want to hurt me, but said he felt like he was holding something back, so decided to go ahead and tell me.  He is majorly concerned - he called me after I got offline last night and he called again this morning.  He said he knows I'm not Bulimic and he likes the way I am and that's definitely a part of why he's attracted to me.  He's really being a sweetie about the whole thing and is even coming over this afternoon before I have to work, so on one hand, I'm kind of glad it happened because I'm getting to see more of how Bret's reacting to the situation, but I'm just kind of hurt that they would think that of me.  Bret says it's really just his mom - says she's just concerned if there's a problem and nothing more.  Said his dad said I looked just fine and his mom should leave me alone.    Bret says they both really like me (personality-wise anyway), so at least that's good.  I just want to go over there, take off all my clothes, and show them that I'm just a "slim wee lass" - I like that!   But I don't think Bret's quite ready for that.....

Anyway, Bret will be here soon, so need to get ready.  Thanks everyone for listening....

Krissy

[Krissy16]

Ok, so tonight Bret and his parents came over and met my parents and Allie for the first time.  All seems to have gone well.  No, there was no mention of us being nudists, and no, everyone was dressed, even Allie!   It's quite cold and has been snowing here most of the day, so was a good excuse to be inside and "stay warm" (and dressed - well ok, sort of)   I did take my clothes off as soon as they left (and so did everyone else).  Bret just called and said that his parents liked my parents.  The other really good thing is that Bret's mom told him that she guessed I was just naturally skinny since my mom and Allie are both "wee lasses" (to use Rumdiary's words, which I like! ), so I guess in a way I've proven myself without even saying anything about it.  My parents were also impressed with Bret's parents.  My dad said that, given the person that Bret is (my mom and dad both really like him if you hadn't figured that out yet), he probably had good parents.  So, just the first time now... I'm glad it went well.  Guess we'll have to see where it goes from here. 

Anyway, late and still snowing for now... I'm going to bed!

Krissy

[wheelguy]

Well Krissy I'm glad you got that cleared up with her parents.  Don't you know that you're not supposed to get along with your mother-in-law.

Aaron, I was wondering what would happen if you or your sister brought friends over?  Would they be required to strip right away too?  And is your sister older or younger?

[Bboy1986]

I have been reading this and find it fascinating.  I know I am not very active on this site but I check in from time to time.  Krissy, you should write a book based on this experience, of course if Bret's parent's still don't know by that point maybe a pseudonym might be called for.  My parents would not approve of nudism either so I guess I am in a similar boat to your roommate.

[Aaron Stern]

Aaron, I was wondering what would happen if you or your sister brought friends over?  Would they be required to strip right away too?  And is your sister older or younger?

Well, truth is I only had a handful of «real» friends (not the Facebook-type), all of them from Hebrew School, and only one of them felt comfortable enough to come to our home and strip naked; the others, I would just visit them from time to time, they all lived in Santa Monica, within walking distance, and we'd all stay dressed there.  Most of the time together, we spent at the beach, after school, practically every day (except on Saturday), two hours minimum, so I had my fair share of quality time «with the boys».  I was only able to talk my best buddy Sean into becoming a nudie, though, and after my dad talked to his parents, they allowed him to visit us, and be naked at our home.
My sister Sarah is ca. a year and a half younger than me.  Aaron

[wheelguy]

Aaron, I was wondering what would happen if you or your sister brought friends over?  Would they be required to strip right away too?  And is your sister older or younger?

Well, truth is I only had a handful of «real» friends (not the Facebook-type), all of them from Hebrew School, and only one of them felt comfortable enough to come to our home and strip naked; the others, I would just visit them from time to time, they all lived in Santa Monica, within walking distance, and we'd all stay dressed there.  Most of the time together, we spent at the beach, after school, practically every day (except on Saturday), two hours minimum, so I had my fair share of quality time «with the boys».  I was only able to talk my best buddy Sean into becoming a nudie, though, and after my dad talked to his parents, they allowed him to visit us, and be naked at our home.
My sister Sarah is ca. a year and a half younger than me.  Aaron

Thanks for the reply Aaron!  I always wondered how that would work in a nudist family.  It's great that one would hangout at your home and you were able to hangout with others elsewhere.  At what age did Sean starting hanging out at your house and did your sister ever have any friends over?

[Aaron Stern]

Sean and I were about five years old when I first brought him home (we had started pre-school three months prior), and we both stripped naked right away, but my dad wanted to make sure that was o.k. with his parents, so he asked for their permission the same day, when he came home from work.
My sister Sarah always had her three girlfriends over, two of whom are sisters from a nudie home and one becoming a nudie in no time; her parents were divorced and happy that their daughter had a place where she was always welcome to a point where she oftentimes just stayed with us, like an adopted child. Sarah's bfs, well that's a different story, in part because all of them, including her fiancee Mark, coming from non-nudie homes, had this fear of showing up in front of our mom with a you-know-what, so most of them were never 100% comfortable at our home;  and our mom, being a physician, never had much patience for what she calls «juvenile BS».  So with Mark, it was a on-again, off-again relationship, until he realized that Sarah is a very special person, and then was able to get all his courage in line and jump, and after that he started behaving like he had never been anything but a life-long nudie, amazing!  Aaron

P.S.:  I would like to leave it at that, wheelguy;  this is Krissy's thread, and I do not want to take the attention away from her subject.

[Krissy16]

A number of you have asked for an update, so here goes...

Not much to report, or at least nothing overly exciting like some of the last few posts... Bret and I have been together, either here at home, at my work or going somewhere, every day this year so far.  And then add onto that more than one phone call each day too, just kind of depending on the day.  Our parents all got together here again this weekend, again all clothed - Bret's parents have no idea yet.  The plan was to have Sarah here too, and she actually got dressed for the occassion, eventhough she had hoped for a nude weekend, but she wanted to meet Bret's parents too, so figured a few hours dressed would be okay.    All went well again and I think I can actually say that Bret's parents and my parents actually like each other and are getting along pretty well!  

Bret's been hanging out with me at my dad's work (my work too).  My dad is an Electrical Engineer... And now Bret's actually thinking of changing his major to EE.  I think he's crazy, but guess it's okay if that's what he wants.  It would make him stay in school longer because of the change.  I still have 2 years left because I started as an education major and then switched.  If Bret switches now, he would probably have just over 2 years left... Right now he has one year to go. 

I'm really looking forward to having Bret right next door again.  He has become such a part of my life and is such a sweetie!  It's like we were made for each other!  I do agree that maybe we should change the title of this thread... I just never dreamed it would turn out like this.  Can you tell I'm happy that it did?????

Anyway, Sarah and I have to get headed back to school... Bret is already there, so I guess we're late...   I'm actually not looking forward to this semester for some reason?!?!  I'll be glad when Friday comes!

Krissy

[rumdiary]

Thx for the update Krissy.

I do remember, from my Uni days, I had the problem of not focusing on work when I was attached to someone, so make sure you're equally focused I suppose!  On Bret and work!

Obviously it sounds like things are going marvelously for you and him.  It'll be interesting to see how his parents deal with it, if they're ever told!  Keep us posted, this is a great thread!

[Aaron Stern]

I was checking out the «recent posts» page, saw the «Trouble With Neighbors ...»-thread, then, just above, «Last Post by Krissy» where it says, "I removed him.  Thanks for letting us know!", and got the panix:  oh no, she dumped Bret  !  Only then I noticed that it was an entirely differrent thread (borderline dyslexia on my part  ?).
Krissy, I hope everything's moving along swimmingly;  take care, Aaron