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« Reply #15 on: December 29, 2008, 01:50:25 AM »


Hmmm.... is the ANYONE referring to me Christine??????????  biggrin


Nope!!!!!!!  biggrin  I mean "anyone" in tthe generic sense......  Cool
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« Reply #16 on: January 01, 2009, 09:33:31 AM »

and given that some girls on this forum say that their parents don't even know about their lifestyle, i'm obviously not the only one who feels nervous or awkward about her father seeing her bare.


Before you ask, I'm not a girl if the Bon Jovi picture didn't give it away (I'm also not Bon Jovi).  That said...

What is unique about your situation is that your parents are already into naturism and you are not.  They have practiced it all your life and you haven't.  That is fantastically unique and warrants a unique mode of thought...
You'll see that I snatched a quote from one of your posts.  I am from a family that never did and never would tolerate social nudity. Ever.    Many people here are not nervous or awkward about having their parents see them bare.  For many of us our parents finding out would be a danger; a threat.  For you, it's nothing to do with the parents "knowing" anything. For you it's all about comfort levels. Your parents will not disapprove: they are inviting you to do it.  They will not point and laugh: they are inviting you to do it. Yet it's not simple. It's an very interesting scenario.

...and I totally hoped to have a conclusion by the end of this.  It's late and I'll see if I have anything better to say tomorrow.

Just remember that you have nothing to fear.  You are walking into a situation where there will be nothing but acceptance.  As long as you can mentally stand the concept of your father seeing you naked nothing will go wrong externally.  Just think about the concept.  Is there really something wrong with a father seeing his daughter in the skin she was born in?  Remember, we are not born with shame. We are taught it.  So why feel ashamed?

okay, maybe that does jive for a conclusion.  Hope I helped.







^what he said, its a very good situation actually
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« Reply #17 on: May 31, 2010, 03:33:48 AM »

Hey Melissa, you started this thread about a year and a half ago, and I was just curious:  how did your situation turn out?  Are you comfortable being naked in front of your dad now?  Any advice you could give to those fellow YNAI-members who are now at a similar point to where you were in December 2008?  Take care, Aaron
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« Reply #18 on: June 01, 2010, 01:06:30 PM »

yeah please tell us
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« Reply #19 on: June 23, 2010, 01:47:10 PM »

Hey Melissa, you started this thread about a year and a half ago, and I was just curious:  how did your situation turn out?  Are you comfortable being naked in front of your dad now?  Any advice you could give to those fellow YNAI-members who are now at a similar point to where you were in December 2008?  Take care, Aaron

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« Reply #20 on: June 23, 2010, 10:06:01 PM »

maybe just bring up the subject of being nude around the house with them  and judge their reactions ... if they are good it might make you more comfortable.
specially because your parents go to beaches and clubs without you it sounds like they would be very welcoming to it.
how do you think they would react?
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« Reply #21 on: June 23, 2010, 11:05:21 PM »

yes the best thing about naturism is the feeling of being free and having no worries, like everyone sais, just go at the speed which you feel comftable with and dont do what you feel uncomftable with.....you will know when the time is right and go from there Smiley
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« Reply #22 on: July 06, 2010, 11:25:27 PM »

I have a similar problem. I don't really care if my parents see me nude but I have two younger sisters. I've never been naked around them but I don't really want to either, it just seems weird to me. I don't know
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« Reply #23 on: August 09, 2010, 09:55:11 PM »

I am 17 and will be turning 18 tommorow and my family still doesnt know. I'm not embarrased or anything its just coming from a traditional Cuban family I know they would not understand and would probably have me instatutionalized.
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« Reply #24 on: November 19, 2011, 12:26:02 AM »

I would certainly be uncomfortable, but more from surprise than anything. I've always interacted with my parents clothed, who are not nudists, and I just can't imagine them allowing it. They would have to undergo a major attitude shift for them to allow it. Not that I would mind. I think my family could be a little more relaxed about nudity.
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« Reply #25 on: November 24, 2011, 02:57:02 PM »

I might be a little uncomfortable about being nude in front of my family, as my family isn't naturist.

But I think if I was back in my teens and I'd been into naturism then like some of the people here are, and I'd been brave enough to discuss it with her, and she said it was okay, any discomfort I had wouldn't last long.

But it's not an issue now, I am 27 and have my own home and I've never discussed my interest in naturism with my family - maybe one day but it's so far never needed to come up.
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